Being single in your thirties is hard, especially seeing everyone around you with partners, families etc. but it is also good.

I recently went away for a month and could do whatever, see whoever, spend time with my people, see new parts of this beautiful country we live in. be me, have fun, and not have to worry about my partner if he is happy etc. I’m saying that because my past relationships, I could never do what I wanted, could never go spend my money on my adventures, it was very hard to live life and be happy. I did lose a lot of friends because of living like this. and looking back, I hated it, I was not happy, I lost friends, but I also lost who I was. And losing who you are is worse and scary. I am not about to do that again. I have found my people and wow are they the best people. And I am finding who I am and it will never stop. Also, I will never give up on me or you. I believe in being you. I believe you are here for a reason. I believe people need you. I believe the world needs you. I believe we are better off with being who we are, not losing sight of your purpose. I am 33 and still figuring it out, but I know but it will take time to get there. We all have a purpose, we all have a life to live, we are all here for a reason.

And if that means being single for me, then I will happily be single. I will grow more and love more. And being me and being kind to everyone is what I believe in most.

Never give up on you. Never change who you are to make someone else happy. Never give up.

don’t change who you are for someone else