Things happen for a reason I believe. But some things are hard to believe and some things you think how the fuck did that happen and why. You become friends with someone and click really well and hang out most days. And do adventures together and become friends straight away and talk about the true meaning of friendships and you feel like you have made a true friend. Then you start to grow, develop, become your own person, and start to see things how they are and don’t take shit and stand up to people and not be afraid to say what’s on your mind.

You also make more and new friends and the very best. And meet a guy and things are amazing. And my friends and my man want to hang out and we all love each other and talk about everything. We get along, hang out all the time, drink together, dinners, etc we live life together. Then one friend doesn’t fit and things turn. And you start to think why and what happened. Do I need to change. What did I do. But it is kind of nonsense because you were being you and living life and being who you are. And you realise that you are not the problem. So, in saying this; please don’t stop being you. Because once you stop being you, you allow the world to control and dictate you to be someone you’re not. And believe me, you do not want that. Always be you. I will never stop being me. I am who I am. I love who I am. I love my life. I am happy. I am me.

My past two relationships have never wanted to hang with my friends, it was always an issue. But now we all want to hang out. And excited to do it. No hassle. But we do love our alone time but we love being present with people. The best thing is we can be ourselves and show our true colours and we still all love and accept each other. And I have never had this before and I have lost friends a lot before because ex’s didn’t want to hang out with my friends. Their friends yes but it was a hassle and a problem for my friends.

Friends. Boyfriends. Partners. Can come and go. But who you are can too but don’t lose who you are for someone else.  Don’t let your true self disappear again. it is not worth it. Stay true to yourself and others and remember who you are. (Lion King Quote. Remember who you are. You are my son. The one true King.)

Don’t forget who you are. Don’t lose hope. Don’t lose focus on you. Don’t change to suit someone else. Change for you and change for the better. You are the only one of YOU! So, no one has been on your walk, and no one ever will. Don’t let people tell you who to be.

So, my darling. Remember who you are. You are beautiful. You are amazing. You are handsome. You are worthy. You are you for a reason. Don’t hide who you are. Remember! Don’t lose hope. Don’t lose focus.

I believe in you.