Being single does not mean you failed.

I used to always think I failed in life and stayed in a toxic relationship because I didn’t want to have another failed relationship after being divorced. I always saw myself as a failure. But that is not the case.

Yes, sometimes I wish I had my husband and a family, but my path went differently. And I don’t mind at all. Because I have found myself. I live with my parents, and I am getting to know them all over again as an adult and it is more special to me. And to be honest I am glad I am single and love being single. I can honestly say my life is good and Em is happy. But I do miss having a relationship and having that someone. But all good things take time. and while I live this life and this chapter, I will continue to learn, continue to find myself, continue to appreciate the little things, continue to love everyone and be kind. Enjoy this time I have.

I would not change my past. I would not change my relationship. I would not change my forms of cancer cells. I would not change my story.

And I hope you don’t want too either. As we actually can’t. but we can change the future and make it our best. We can make 2024 and years to come what we want. We were put here for a reason. And I am not giving up and I don’t want you too.

Because you are too important. Believe in yourself.

Believe you are Loved. Believe you are amazing. Believe you are beautiful.