So there’s a saying that people say these days. Oh that person is a 5/10 8/10 etc you get my point. But I am here to tell you that there is no such thing. It is rubbish. Don’t believe it. And if someone has said it to you. And it has stuck with you, Let it go. Because you my friend are a 10/10. No questions asked. No arguments! I believe there is no number on what or who you are. And everyone is and are their own individual person.

So I think and believe it is insane that everyone thinks they can label a person. Everyone is unique and being the best, they can be. We all have our own story. No one is the same and how dare someone else say you are an 6/10 because you have been through hell and back and came out stronger than ever. YOU as an individual are always a 10/10.

And people don’t need to judge you on that. People don’t need to put you down. The world is this a horrible place to put a number on someone like that? And say that you’re a 6 because you go through the life. You don’t do certain things, live how they want you, don’t follow the crowd, etc that is bullshit in my opinion.

Everyone’s 10 and they just need time to heal, time to process and become a better version of themselves. It is insane and don’t ever lose sight of who you are or what you are or who you becoming. Because you, my friend, are always bettering yourself and you have your own purpose. So do not compare yourself to the person next to you. I have done it for years, but I am me, because I went through what I did, yes it was hard, shit, had many tears, some days wish I didn’t go through it, and have asked many times why me. But today; I am more loving, more humble, more supportive, full of kindness, open, honest, and stronger than ever. And I do not want to change. I love who I am and who I am becoming. I hope and pray you do as well.

We’re all going through heart aches, happiness, sadness, pain, but we are going through healing. We’ve been through shit in our lives. We have our own sense of fashion. We have our own style; we have our own choices. Some of us like country music (like me and my family don’t and I get Stirred for liking country music, but it is all fun). But that doesn’t define who I am. And it doesn’t devalue my number, or theirs. We are all different and have our own walk.

We all have our flaws, we all have our wounds, we will have our scars, and our emotional roller-coaster of a life. But that doesn’t devalue us. We are made for a reason and some of us could be still working that out, and some of us might know who you are and what you are called for.

Stop Labelling yourself to suit everyone else.

5 leaf clover by Luke Combs
I know I’m a lucky man, but I ain’t sure why I am
‘Cause it ain’t like anyone deserves the world in the palm of their hand
I’ve hit my knees, thankful as can be
But the one thing I can’t get over
Is how’d a guy like me who’d have been fine with three
Wind up with a five leaf clover

Read these lyrics. Believe in them. And think of the little things in life, as they matter and the little things in life can change your whole prospective of life.

And now read this image below. And hold onto that.

You my friend, are a 10/10 and you are you for a reason. You got this.